Tuesday, May 30, 2006

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life with a 12 year old well . . . let's just say its different than living alone. Very different. ;) The things that I used to spend time on--blogging, surfing the internet, reading, listening to music--they have fallen to the wasteside. Not because the 12 year old is demanding or time consuming, but because I am choosing to spend time with him. It is great to have someone to talk to and share my day with. It is nice having someone to watch TV with and then talk about what we saw. It is fun having someone to eat with, and lay on the floor laughing with. It is nice having him here. Sam is actually an extremely patient and understanding young man. We have yet to do any real sightseeing. But, he has remained cheerful and not complained at all. I have been so very, very impressed with how he is doing here. He is really taking to the combination of freedom and responsibility. Having his own set of keys to my apartment delighted him to no end. It is now his duty to lock up when we leave and let us back in when we return. He decided he needed a trash can for his room (my guest room), so he went to the store and got on by himself. To my surprise, this made him extremely happy . . . or should I say proud. I have also been very impressed with his bravery in the language. Although it does bother him when people try to engage him in full conversation in a language he does not know, he does not let not knowing Chinese stop him from going and doing. His first week here, when we were visiting the local McDonalds, he asked me "how do you say 'ice cream' in Chinese?" I told him; then he got up and went to the counter to get two of them. And . . . he has even been brave with the food too. He has tried so many new foods. He even tried and liked tofu and dried peas!! There are even some of the foods that he has tried that he now requests when I ask him, "so what would you like to have for dinner tonight?" And, last Saturday we went to a banquet with some of my former students. He tried so many new things that one meal alone! I was so super impressed!! He is one amazing guy. www.flickr.com Life with a 12 year old is well . . . well, its full of fun and laughter . . . it's different than life alon, but it's good, real good. Having my brother here is such a blessing to me. However, what this means to you, my dear blog reader, is less systematic blogging for the next two months. There will be some posts about what's going on over here on our little island and what we are up to, but that is about it. Just wanted to...
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home sweet home You know the feeling. I know you do. You go away on a trip out of town. You stay in a hotel room or in someone's guest room. It's nice at first--a fancy recliner to sit in, new things on the walls to look at and enjoy, different trees lining the roads, a new set of stores to explore. But, then . . . after awhile, you long for the familar again. There is a kind of relaxing that your body does as you turn back into your old neighborhood. You open the front door to your own home and the scent of home washes over you. It feels so good to sit on your old couch, to sleep in your own bed. Ahh, home, sweet, home. The first time this happened to me in Taiwan, it shocked me. I left my apartment for a few days out of town. When I walked into a home that looked like nothing I would or even could have in the States, I felt at home. That is because it was my home. It was a wonderful feeling. I remember making a mental note of that moment. It happened three years ago. I've never questioned it since. But, I digress. I have missed blogging. My mom asked me the other day "are you really that busy?" In some ways yes and in some ways no. I know that in life there is not really such thing as "no time for . . . " We choose to spend our time the way we spend it. If I don't have time for blogging, it is because I am choosing to spend time on something else. Since my sister's wedding--which was over a month ago--I have only posted 9 times. A little break was nice, but I miss taking the time to read other's blogs and blog myself. But, like I said, I have choosen to spend my time in other ways--namely with my kid brother. So, what does this have to do with home sweet home, you ask? Well, opening up the website of my blogging service is like opening the front door and breathing in the scent of home. Sending words deep into the blogosphere is like sitting on my own worn couch. I regret that my little break from blogging conincided with the same time I was to be blogging weekly with a Beth Moore Bible Study Group. The study we were doing, Living Beyond Yourself, is/was incredible--life changing really. After looking at who is the Holy Spirit, she took us through the fruit (yes, singular) of the Spirit--love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. I apologize to the group for not upholding my commitment to the weekly posting. Perhaps this summer I can do a series on the fruit of the Spirit. I am a sinner saved by grace. I can't promise daily posts just yet, but I do know that I am going to begin posting more...

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