Thursday, November 13, 2008

another look at the wedding bands

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Here is a photo we took after the ceremony showing off our wedding bands.  Lawrance loves this photo, and I guess I do too. :) 

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And, I can never decide if I like the photo with the rings on the pink flower or the yellow flower better.

Nov 13, 2008 12:18:00 PM | lawrance, my photos, the states, wedding

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